Beating Imposter Syndrome

Have you heard of imposter syndrome? It is a real thing!

Here are some of the signs you are suffering from it: you feel you’re not good enough, can’t do it, don’t belong there, shouldn’t be there… you feel a fraud, and that people will judge you. In your head you hear people saying, Who is he to be doing that? Who does she think she is?

It’s very common!

I suffered from imposter syndrome when I set up Dernier Publishing (I still struggle with it at times). I was a nobody – a stay-at-home-mum who did a bit of freelance writing. Who was I to set up any company? Or do anything ‘important’?

In the early days, when people asked me what I did, I was embarrassed to admit I had set up my own business – it felt like delusions of grandeur. Who was I to think I could set up a publishing company? I had no background in business, sales or publishing. I had no contacts, no knowledge of how the world of business works – no wonder I felt that imposter syndrome digging in its claws!

But the truth is, the Lord often uses the weak. So be encouraged if you are feeling inadequate right now in regard to your writing!

Here are 5 Imposter Syndrome Beating Ideas:

1. We need to consider what is really true. Did the Lord really say that to you? Do you feel the Lord has called you to write stories for children, to share the good news? If so, write your calling down on a small card and keep it in your purse or wallet. When the doubting voices come in, read it out loud.

2. So you’re not very good? A few writers will be brilliant from the first word they write, but most of us have to learn our craft (have you been through the Write for a Reason Academy?) and get in plenty of practice. You may feel like the new kid on the block, but as long as you are continuing to learn, and keep putting your talent to work, you can tell the imposter voices to leave you alone – you’re on a journey. Everyone has to start somewhere. 🙂

3. Instead of listening to the doubting voices (including your own!), talk to a trusted friend who will encourage you. Ignore everyone else (including the imaginary voices that only exist in your head).

4. People won’t always understand – but in the end it doesn’t matter what other people think or say – what does matter is being obedient to our calling. I am responsible, before God, for myself. You are responsible for you. The important thing is that we are faithful to what we feel we have been called to do, not matter what others think or say.

5. Keep your purpose in mind all the time. Christian children’s books are touching hearts and lives all over the world because I didn’t give in to those imposter syndrome voices. I still get them, and I still don’t give in or give up. I’m tempted to, sometimes! But I haven’t yet.

Don't give up.

Imagine what might not get done if YOU give in to those imposter syndrome voices in your head. What stories might not be written? What children might not hear the good news?

But imagine the joy in heaven if your story touches a child, or maybe two or three… or a hundred, or even a thousand… or more? Dare to dream that the Lord could use YOU.

Don’t let imposter syndrome keep you from using your talents.

Bit of a deeper ‘writing tip’ this week, but I hope you have found that helpful.

Janet Wilson from Write for a Reason and Dernier Publishing

Keep writing,

Janet

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Do You Use a Thesaurus?

I’ve been asking around social media recently – “Do you use a thesaurus?”

It turns out that some writers use it a lot, some a little, and some not at all.

Do you?

If you don’t, can I recommend it to you? There’s a fabulous online version – you just put your word in the search, and it will give you a whole list of synonyms. Plus a selection of antonyms… and a definition to boot!

Whether you’re looking for just the right word, or a stronger version of a word, why not give it a go?

The thesaurus might become your new best friend!

Have a great writing week,

Janet Wilson from Write for a Reason and Dernier Publishing

Janet

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Basic Story Structure – the Five Steps You Need to Follow

Hello and welcome to this week’s Write for a Reason writing tip!

An essential writing tip today: Make sure, before you start writing your novel, that you are familiar with good story structure.

I have read several self-published novels recently that would have been so much more compelling if the author had understood how fiction works.

Here’s what you need to do:

1. Open a story loop – make something bad happen

2. Make it worse

3. Build to a climax

4. Resolve the issue and close the story loop

5. Tie up all the loose ends.

These five basic steps are fundamental to good story structure – if you miss any of them out, you risk losing/annoying/boring your readers.

Ignore these five steps at your peril! Following them will keep your readers reading. 🙂

Blessings to you all,

Janet Wilson from Write for a Reason and Dernier Publishing

Janet

P.S. We have two new students in the Write for a Reason Academy, which starts today. Please pray for them both, and for me, as we work together. Thank you!

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How to Make Sure You Achieve Your Writing Goals for 2020

Hello and welcome to the very last writing tip, not just of this year, but of the decade!

Last week I gave you two quick, fun writing exercises to do – I hope you enjoyed the creativity. (If you missed them, follow this link to the post.)

This week I have a slightly different type of exercise for you, to do with goal setting. Setting concrete goals is an excellent thing to do, because goals help us stay on track. Even if we don’t achieve everything on our list, we will probably have accomplished more by the end of the year than if we didn’t set any goals! So now is the time to get out a pen and paper and have a think…

Exercise 1. What are your writing goals for 2020? Don’t forget to pray as you plan. 🙂

Exercise 2. What might prevent you from achieving your goals? Time pressure? Procrastination? Fear of what people may think or say? Fear of failure? Lack of clarity with your story? Fear that your writing is not good enough? Be honest here, and write down anything that might hold you back. You don’t have to show anyone!

Exercise 3. What will help you counteract the issues you face, and go on to achieve your goals? Could you call on a friend to hold you accountable? Could you set aside regular time in your calendar for your writing? Do you need to say no to something else? Do you need to overcome your fear and do it anyway? Do you need to join a course to hone your writing skills, or join a writing group for encouragement?

I’m just about to set my goals myself, so I will be working with you. Let’s pray for and encourage each other as we work towards using the gifts the Lord has given us for building up the church.

May the Lord lead and guide! And may I take this opportunity to wish you a blessed new year, full of joy. If you have any questions about any of the exercises, please don’t hesitate to get in touch.

Happy 2020!

Janet

P.S. Write for a Reason Academy starts next week! Please pray for our new students. Registration has closed, but if you’re thinking you would like to have joined us, let me know and I’ll make sure you know if/when I run the course again.

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Two Fun Christmas Writing Exercises!

I’m guessing that many of you won’t have time to work on your novel over the next few days… but here are a couple of quick, fun writing exercises for you to do when you have half an hour to spare. Perhaps when Grandad has fallen asleep in the afternoon, in the quiet of the morning before the rush, or when everyone else is watching a film you’ve seen before? (I spent an hour in a queue waiting to get out of Heathrow Airport’s Terminal Two car park last Friday – I could have done one of these then, if I’d have thought about it!).

1. Write the Christmas story from the point of view of an unnamed character. One of the animals, a neighbour, a shepherd, a child, a robin… the choice is yours. Don’t spend too long thinking about the story – write it from your heart as quickly as you can. It doesn’t have to be polished – real is what we’re looking for. It’s surprising what you can come up with when you just write.

2. What do you enjoy most about the Christmas celebrations? (What a wonderful gift to celebrate – Jesus, Emmanuel, God with us!) Is it the decorations, the tree, the lights, the food, the music and carols, having the neighbours in, seeing family, buying or receiving gifts and cards, the school nativity play, the time off, the office party, the church services, the games and silliness? Whatever you choose, write from your heart. 🙂 Perhaps Christmas is a difficult time for you this year, for one reason or another. Add that in – it’s important to express how you really feel. The Psalmists did… the Lord understands.

I hope you enjoy doing these two exercises. You could even do them with your family and friends – get everyone writing! Send me your finished pieces – I’d love to read them.

And don’t forget, if you’d like to join the Write for a Reason Academy, you have two days left to register for our January start. I’d love to help you with your writing, if you feel you need training, support or encouragement. Or all three!

Whether you join the course or not, make 2020 the year you use the gift you have been given. Don’t bury it again because it’s too hard to do, or try to do it alone if you need help. Write for a Reason helps fund the sending of Christian books to needy children, so if you do decide to join the course, you will also be helping a great cause (and there’s a monthly payment option, if that helps).

Whatever you decide to do, I hope you have a wonderful Christmas. May the Lord fill your life with light, life, hope, peace and an abundance of joy!

Janet

Janet Wilson from Write for a Reason and Dernier Publishing

P.S. Do you love instagram? I’m @janetfromwriteforareason if you’d like to connect. 🙂

P.P.S. Read more info about the Write for a Reason Academy here.

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Put Your Talent to Work in 2020

Are you disappointed with the progress of your novel in 2019?

If so, it’s probably because you need more help and encouragement. Writing can be so lonely, and let’s face it, we all need help and encouragement when we are embarking on something new! 🙂

If you’re inwardly nodding your head, pray about joining the Write for a Reason Academy. Could it be for you?

You only have a few days left to sign up for the course which starts in the new year.

As soon as you join, you will gain IMMEDIATE access to the pre-course runway, which I’ve designed to help you get ready for the weeks ahead (this includes some fun writing prompts, so you can get to work straight away!). The Modules will then be released to you week by week for ten weeks, starting Monday January 6th.

I would count it a privilege to help you in the next step of your writing journey.

In this course you will learn everything you need to write a successful novel for children/teens…

…and by the time we finish, in March, you will have a complete story plan for your next novel, with all the elements in place!

This time next year, you could be looking at putting the final touches to your novel – imagine that!

From a testimonial: “I am not scared of failing any more and I need to give myself the chance to actually produce this ‘baby’ which has been gestating for far too long.

Here’s a quick run down of what we will be looking at together in the course:

Module One: Reaching Your Target Audience
Purpose: Looking at different age groups and demographics, and what they need. (N.B. This is an essential foundation!)


Module Two: Creating Your Protagonist
Purpose: To learn what is needed to create an engaging and inspiring protagonist (main character).

Module Three: Creating Secondary Characters
Purpose: This week we will look at what’s needed in your secondary characters, including ‘baddies’ if you have them.

Module Four: A Look at Narrative Voice
Purpose: To consider all the options, then choose what works best for you and your next story.

Module Five: Weaving in Your Theme
Purpose: To learn how to make your “message” work in the context of your story.

Module Six: Creating the Perfect Setting
Purpose: To learn about different settings, and what is needed for each.

Module Seven: Gripping Beginnings
Purpose: To learn all the elements you need to craft a gripping beginning to your story.

Module Eight: Satisfying Endings
Purpose: To learn everything you need to include for the perfect ending.

Module Nine: Conflicts and Resolutions
Purpose: To learn how to plot your story to build tension and pace in the ‘middle’.

Module Ten: Your Complete Story Plan
Purpose: By the end of this week, you will have a complete story plan in your hands, ready to begin writing your novel in full!

Each module will include a mixture of teaching, reading and practical assignments. And they’re fun! Yay!

Don’t miss out for another year! Someone’s waiting for the story the Lord has put on your heart.

I do hope you will consider joining the course if you are serious about your writing, because I know I can help you. Let 2020 be the year when you set out to become the novelist you dream of being, and inspire the children on your heart with your stories.

My passion is reaching children with the good news of Jesus through excellent, relevant, fun stories. I would count it a privilege to help you reach the children on your heart through your stories. I long to see a world where every child has access to stories to inspire and encourage them to walk with God.

We all need each other’s gifts in the body of Christ. Together we can make a difference.

Click here to join the course. Any queries, please don’t hesitate to contact me. 🙂

Janet Wilson from Write for a Reason and Dernier Publishing

Janet

P.S. The course includes teaching, assignments, reading, and access to a private facebook group (so you can join other writers in the Write for a Reason community, ask questions and make comments). The course is hard work as well as lots of fun! Be prepared for a deep dive, to learn loads, and to put it all into practice. The course is online, so you have access to it 24/7, wherever you are in the world.

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Why are Goals So Important?

Do you set goals? Yesterday I was talking to a friend from church who is a recovering alcoholic. The process of setting goals has been instrumental in his journey. Short term goals help him to persevere day by day. Long term goals (such as restoring his relationship with his children) give him hope for the future, and something to aim for when times get tough.

His long term goals help him to stick to his daily goals.

Going through the gates to the mansion

I am currently looking at the goals we have for Dernier Publishing next year – it’s a great thing to do, so we’re not aimlessly wandering from project to project (know what I mean?). 🙂

Now it’s your turn! Over the next couple of weeks, set yourself a long term writing goal. Where would you like to be this time next year with your story? Try to make your goal realistic but inspirational!

Once you have set that goal, split your progress down into monthly or weekly goals – whichever suits you best, and let us know what you are planning…

This will help you get your story DONE!

Trust that helps!

See you next week,

Janet Wilson from Write for a Reason and Dernier Publishing

Janet

P.S. The hardest part of anything can be starting (going through those gates…). If you want to make sure your story is the best it can be (plus finally feel like you’re not alone!), it’s not too late to join the Write for a Reason Academy. We start in January, and you will come out with a complete story plan with great characters, an exciting plot and you will know exactly who you are writing for. I’m really looking forward to the course, and do hope you will join me. More details here.

From a previous course student: “I am not scared of failing anymore and I need to give myself the chance to actually produce this ‘baby’ which has been gestating for far too long. Just wanted to let you know, because without your kind words this would still be way off in the future for me. Thank you :)”

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Christmas Stories

Christmas is a brilliant time for having some fun with your writing.

Here’s an idea:

Write down the names of everyone who will be with you on Christmas Day or Boxing Day. Write a Christmas story involving all these people, to read out after lunch or tea. 🙂

This is brilliant practice in making your writing sharp and precise – you need to keep your story short, exciting and funny, or Grandma will drop asleep and the children will fidget! Could you include a gospel message? Jesus’ incarnation is good news to share!

Isn’t this what Write for a Reason is all about? Sharing the good news of Jesus through story?

Go on, you can do it!

If you have children with you, make them the heroes of the story – they will love it… and from that time on they will be waiting for you to finish your novel! What more encouragement could you need than that? 🙂 Oh, and include pets – they will probably be the favourite characters…

While I’m here, I’d like to remind you that registration for the Write for a Reason Academy is open for just three more weeks, for the January start.

Who is the course for?

This course is for Christians who feel they have been called to write novels for children/teens, but realise they could do with some training and encouragement as they hone their natural talent and story-writing skills. If you want to go through all the essentials you need for a successful novel in a clear, step-by-step way, Write for a Reason Academy is for you. One writer who completed the course said, “I was surprised at how much the course taught me. I didn’t know as much as I thought I did!! The presentation was clear and easy to follow and the teaching was clear and well thought out.”

Here’s the truth: you can do anything God has called you to do, with a bit of help. That’s what the body of Christ is all about – each of us using our talents to support and help each other. One of our students, Mark, has published two novels for 8-11s, has a third on the way, and has also gone on to produce a series of Bible study guides. He told me, “the course gave me the skills and confidence I needed.”

We all need help to develop our gifts, whatever they are. A few years ago I did a course in business French, because although I speak everyday French, I didn’t know the specialised business language. I have also signed up for a safeguarding course in March, because as part of the safeguarding team at church, I need to keep my knowledge sharp. I need to keep up with my job, too. The last professional development course I did cost me £1,200. I’m not charging anything like that for Write for a Reason Academy – I have set the price at 1/4 of that, even though the amount of content is about the same! I am here to serve you.

If cost is an issue, I have set up a six month payment plan, so you can pay monthly. If you feel the Lord is calling you to this, pray about it. There’s always a way when the Lord is in it. Sometimes there’s a really simple way forward… if you currently spend £3 on a coffee five days a week, and take your own instead, you could save £60 a month – which would more than cover the cost of the course and give you a bit extra!

I love getting to know students, and I will be with you in an exclusive Facebook group, going over each week’s training, answering questions, supporting and encouraging you. Even if there are only two or three people on the course, I will be there. You have access to the course at any time, so as long as you have internet access, and a notepad (digital or paper!) you can study.

If you like writing, this course is so much fun! Click here to check out the details.

Right, I think I’ve done enough talking. Any questions, please don’t hesitate to ask. And let me know how you get on with your Christmas stories!

Have a wonderful week,

Janet Wilson from Write for a Reason and Dernier Publishing

Janet

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Writing Habits of Authors

Hello again writer friends! Last week we looked at how important it is to make writing a habit. This week, as promised, I have brought you some thoughts from published authors about their writing habits.

Rather than pick out ideas, I give you their comments in full – you’ll be inspired by the wonderful variety and their collective wisdom! (They all belong to the UK Association of Christian Writers. If you’d like to know more about any of the authors, click on their name to go to their Amazon Author Biography.)

I write any time, any place anywhere. I use every means available – computer, phone, iPad, digital voice recorder, notebook and pen. I utilise every spare minute I can, so I have written whilst waiting for hospital and doctors appointments, waiting at a railway crossing when in the car (using DVR not taking my hands off the steering wheel) and in trains and planes, at airports, railway stations and when doing book signings. Write whenever and wherever you can.” – Wendy Jones

My writing regime begins with prayer. I have a set time for that, then later in the day if I’m feeling okay I will do a little writing or jotting down of ideas, but mostly I wait till the evening because that is the only time I’m ever really well enough. I mention the prayer because if I didn’t spend time with God I don’t think I’d have much to say. Contemplative and listening prayer are where I get most of my ideas. Having said that, when it comes to children’s books, that can be a little different, as mine tend to have quite a bit of silliness in them. I think God enjoys silliness as much as we do! So I will jot down ideas, character names, book titles, and write bits as they gradually formulate into stories. I am motivated but not the least bit disciplined. The actual putting words to screen is fairly erratic, but seems to somehow get done. As I spend most of my life in bed, that’s where I sit up to write.” – Keren Dibbens-Wyatt

I treat it as a job (because I’m hoping that one day it will pay me a salary!) so this helps me to avoid the distractions of housework and other jobs while I’m writing, because I know I’ll get to those in the evenings/weekends. (Or, in the case of housework, not at all…)” – Lucy Rycroft

I’m with Lucy, treating it as a job and trying not to leave my desk while the children are at school. I like to have several projects on the go at different stages, so that if editing project A is turning my brain to porridge, I can spend an hour on the dreaming stage of project B. I give myself deadlines if they don’t exist externally, because I’m no good at writing without them. When I have a lot of work on, or I’m in the must-produce-a-chapter-a-day stage of a book, I try to get up early to get started. I find the early morning, before anyone else is awake, the best time to write; and I love that it helps me feel productive and ahead of the game for the rest of the day. However, I don’t find that a sustainable habit, so I only use it for certain seasons of a book.” – Amy Robinson

I try to write whenever I can – I get a good hour in on Monday nights while the children are at gymnastics, for example, and while waiting for appointments. I too try to treat school days as work days, and I will always have lots of different writing jobs on. I try to mix up paid for writing (freelance Christian work) with speculative fiction writing and blogs so that my brain is kept as lively as possible. I also find that jotting down ideas which I then come back to is good. Writing away from home inspires me – sitting in a gallery with gymnastics parents, overhearing snippets of conversation and people watching often puts ideas in my head. For me, the key is to have my ears and eyes open in every situation I find myself in (the school run, doctors’ with my elderly parents, various clubs for children) and weave all that into my writing. Life is copy. I hope this is helpful.” – Ruth Leigh

My main writing sessions are in the evening. Consistency is important for me. I usually write at my desk but I often use train trips to draft story and article ideas out via an app on my phone. I get quite a bit done that way. I am always working on flash fiction or standard length short stories but have bigger projects on the go too. For those I use weekend afternoons to make progress. When I get the odd half an hour during the day, I draft or edit something. I’ve got better over time at judging how I can make the most of the time I’ve got. I blog for an online magazine every week so plan my writing work around that. I try to get this done as early in the week as possible, then I switch to fiction writing, before preparing the following week’s blog. What I do know is I can always use any writing time available!” – Allison Symes

I write when the kids are at school (but not as disciplined as I should be!). I only write during term time as I know I would get cranky with the kids if I tried to write with them at home. I write one book at a time. In planning stage I need to be in a creative place, so either in the garden in the summer, or in my bedroom (with a lovely view) in the winter. Planning is done with notepad and pen. I’ll then sit in my study and type up the book on my computer. I’ll also make notes on my phone’s note app when I’m away from my computer.” – Caroline Johnston

After 20+ years always researching and writing sitting alone in silence at my desktop computer in my study (latterly at the bottom of the garden) for maybe 20 hours a week, increasingly over the last 10 years I write in nice warm comfortable coffee shops surrounded by music and people typically for 3 stints of 3 hours at a time in a week. In that I achieve 5000-7000 words a week. A luxury – but worth it.” – Peter Thomas

I write one book at a time. The others are in holding patterns above my head, ready to be netted like butterflies. I give myself targets for finishing MSS first draft then for revisions and then for sending to my editor (yes, I pay for editing before I even start pitching). As for the actual writing which follows the planning (not cast in stone by any means), I plan for a week ahead. Invariably, I am a disappointment to myself. Even knowing that I am overoptimistic and reining back my expectations, I still fall short of my targets.” – Bobbie Cole

I write in the evening if I can, sat on my sofa, snack nearby for afterwards (can’t eat and type, no multitasking…). Then I bash away till the chapter is done. I hate reading a book and stopping in the middle of a chapter, writing one is the same...” – Maressa Mortimer

I have to be really disciplined about my writing, as I do it during the kids’ school hours. Often I find that motivates me though to simply get my head down and get going, avoiding as many distractions as possible. I have to say at the start of a project, or if I’m finding a section tricky, procrastination does rear its ugly head! And it is a struggle to down tools when I’m in a good flow (why does that always seem to happen about half an hour before school pick up time?!)” – Claire Musters

What a lot of wonderful variety! I do hope you found these honest comments helpful, and are encouraged that, whatever YOUR lifestyle, YOU CAN DO THIS!

If you have your own writing habit organised, share your wisdom in the comments below – perhaps you could encourage someone else? If not, be inspired to start your own writing habit – one that suits YOU. 🙂 Oh, and if you didn’t pick up your free 21 Day Writing Challenge last week and would like to have a go, you can do so here. It will start you off in the writing habit!

Have a lovely week, as we begin Advent and look forward to celebrating the birth of our precious Saviour,

Janet

P.S. Apologies in advance – I may be a day late again next week, as I might take the day off and go Christmas shopping!

P.P.S. That reminds me, if any of you are looking for Christian books for children/teens for Christmas, try dernierpublishing.com. This is where I work most of the day, when I’m not here with you. 🙂 Any queries about any of the books, please don’t hesitate to contact me – I’d love to help you choose!

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Creative Writing Challenge!

Many of us lead busy lives, full of home, family, work, church and other commitments. How can we fit writing into our schedule?

The best way is to make writing a habit.

The dictionary definition of a habit is: “a settled or regular tendency or practice, especially one that is hard to give up.” Like cleaning your teeth twice a day, exercise (for some!), kissing your spouse goodbye when you leave the house, emptying the dishwasher before you go to work, chocolate on Fridays or (insert your own habits here).

Anything that is a habit GETS DONE.

If you want to write novels for children or young teens, but haven’t yet made writing a part of your life, this 21 day creative writing challenge will help you make writing an enjoyable daily habit… then once you’re in the habit you can go on to get your story DONE!

I have designed the challenge for Christians who write fiction for children/teens, so lots of imagination is needed! It is completely FREE, and you can start TODAY.

The Write for a Reason 21 Day Creative Writing Challenge will:

  1. Help you get into the habit of writing
  2. Get excited about writing!

I hope you will love it as much as I enjoyed putting it together for you. 🙂

It will help you write from your heart, get your imagination into gear and kick-start your creativity.

YOU CAN DO THIS!

Enjoy the prompts, amaze yourself with your own creativity, and start becoming the writer you want to be.

Next week I hope to bring you the habits of writers who have published their books – where and when they write, how long for, and what has helped them get to the end. But for now, start the challenge.

Have a great week, and do share your challenges with me – I always love to hear from you!

Janet Wilson from Write for a Reason and Dernier Publishing

Janet

P.S. Would any of your friends enjoy the challenge? Feel free to share!

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